Dont Be Hasty to Judge

A lovely little girl was holding two apples with both
hands.
Her mum came in and softly asked her little
daughter with a smile: my sweetie, could you give
your mum one of your two apples?
The girl looked up at her mum for some seconds,
then she suddenly took a quick bite on one apple,
and then quickly on the other.
The mum felt the smile on her face freeze. She tried
hard not to reveal her disappointment.
Then the little girl handed one of her bitten apples to
her mum,and said: mummy, here you are. This is the
sweeter one.
No matter who you are, how experienced you are,
and how knowledgeable you think you are, always
delay judgement. Give others the privilege to explain
themselves.
What you see may not be the reality. Never conclude
for others.
That is why we should never only focus on the surface
and judge others without understanding them first.
Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they
are loaded but because they value friendship above
money.
Those who take the initiative at work, do so not
because they are stupid but because they understand
the concept of responsibility.
Those who apologizes first after a fight, do so not
because they are wrong but because they value the
people around them.
Those who are willing to help you, do so not because
they owe you any thing but because they see you as a
true friend.
Those who often text you, do so not because they
have nothing better to do but because you are in
their heart.
One day, all of us will get separated from each other;
we will miss our conversations of everything &
nothing; the dreams that we had. Days will pass by,
months, years, until this contact becomes rare… But
before that day comes cherish every moment you’ve
got to be a true friend.